If the idea of sitting down to discuss your future medical care makes you want to get up and run for the hills, you’re not alone.
Fewer than half of older adults have completed an advance care planning document, and only a small percentage of those documents are shared with the clinicians who may need them.
While most of us agree that documenting our health care wishes is a good idea, starting conversations about advance care planning can feel emotional and is often clouded by misconceptions. Here are a few common myths — and the facts that can help clear them up.
Myth: Advance care planning means giving up on treatment.
Fact: Planning ahead means you get to decide whether you want to pursue every possible medical treatment or focus on comfort and quality of life.
Myth: It’s only for people who are seriously ill.
Fact: Advance care planning is for every adult. If something unexpected happens, having a plan helps ensure you and your family are prepared.
Myth: My family already knows what I want.
Fact: Even those closest to us may be unsure, and can feel stressed when faced with difficult decisions. Writing down your wishes provides clarity and helps reduce the burden on them.
Myth: Talking about it will only upset my loved ones.
Fact: Starting these conversations now can actually reduce future anxiety and help your loved ones feel more confident honoring your wishes.
Myth: The documentation is too complicated and too final.
Fact: Advance care planning can begin with a simple conversation, and your choices can be updated at any time.
Ready to learn more? On May 11, Melinda Clifton with ACG Hospice will discuss advance care planning during the VPAS Cafe at the Goshen Community Center. On May 15, she’ll offer the presentation during the VPAS Cafe at Maury River Senior Services in Buena Vista. Lunch will be provided at both events.
There is no cost to attend, but registration is required. Call (540) 2617474 for more details or to register.
