Editor’s note: The following story was submitted by ConnectionsPlus Healthcare + Hospice.
As the holidays approach, many families prepare festive gatherings and cherished traditions. But for those caring for a loved one with dementia or another advanced illness, the season can bring emotional and physical challenges.
At ConnectionsPlus Healthcare + Hospice, we understand that the holidays may not feel bright for everyone — and that’s okay. Our goal is to be a source of comfort, connection, and care for families navigating this season with love and resilience.
Honoring Traditions with Compassion During the holidays, many families find themselves adjusting longheld traditions to meet the changing needs of a loved one with an advanced illness. Take, for example, the fictional story of a family caring for their father, who is living with mid-stage dementia. Rather than hosting their usual bustling holiday party, they chose a quieter celebration — decorating a small tabletop tree, playing his favorite carols, and sharing stories from holidays past.
“Dad lit up when we showed him old photos,” his daughter shared. “It reminded us that the holidays don’t have to be complicated to be special.”
Stories like this illustrate how simplifying traditions, prioritizing comfort, and engaging the senses — through music, familiar scents, and gentle touch — can create meaningful moments of connection, even in the midst of illness. Note: This story is fictional and intended to reflect common caregiving experiences.
Tips for a Meaningful Holiday Season Whether your loved one is living with dementia, cancer, heart failure, or another serious condition, here are some ways to make the holidays more manageable:
• Simplify celebrations to focus on what matters most
• Create a calm space to avoid overstimulation
• Involve your loved one in activities suited to their abilities
• Maintain routines while staying flexible
• Use clear, gentle communication and non-verbal cues
• Respect their wishes and energy levels Caring for the Caregiver The holidays can be especially demanding for caregivers. It’s important to:
• Set realistic expectations and let go of perfection
• Ask for help from family, friends, or respite services
• Take breaks and maintain your own traditions
• Reach out to programs like our GUIDE initiative at ConnectionsPlus for emotional support, helpful resources, and practical advice
• Practice self-care with rest, nutrition, and movement
• Consult health care professionals for guidance 5 Star Support We at ConnectionsPlus Healthcare + Hospice are proud to continue our tradition of providing 5-star hospice care to our neighbors, grief counseling to anyone who has experienced a loss, and home centered consultations for anyone living with an advanced illness. We are also now offering a new approach to living with dementia and supporting families caring for loved ones with dementia. Services include:
• Personalized care planning and navigation
• Supportive and educational resources • Respite care coordination
• Activity-based engagement for individuals with dementia This holiday season, we’re here to walk alongside you. Whether you’re seeking guidance, resources, or simply someone to talk to, our team is ready to help. For more information, call (540) 463-1848 or visit ConnectionsPlus. care.
