Lee Wilson Merrill, practicing architect and steward of the community, died at home Dec. 16, 2025, after a life shaped by curiosity, generosity, and a deep sense of service to people and place.

Born May 4, 1948, in Oxnard to Grayson and Mary E. Merrill, Lee was preceded in life by his older brothers, Grayson Andrew and Donald Foster Merrill, and spent many loving years being a big brother to younger brothers, John and David Merrill.

Lee earned his Bachelor of Arts and Master of Architecture and Planning from PrincetonUniversity. Before settling in Walkers Creek in 1977, he served as urban designer for the city of Annapolis. He loved the sea, and sailing, but his heart was stolen by the Shenandoah. He crafted projects throughout Lexington, Rockbridge, and other Virginia communities, work that reflected his belief that good design should serve both people and the environment.

Lee’s professionalism was inseparable from his values. He volunteered extensively, serving as a trustee of the Historic Lexington Foundation, board member of Habitat for Humanity, and an originating member of the Lexington Tree Committee. He was a president and board member of Rockbridge Conservation, where he served on the planning committee and advocated for thoughtful land use grounded in care for future generations.

Beyond his public roles, Lee was known for his kindness, patience, and generosity. He was deeply devoted to his family, a loyal friend, and someone who formed and sustained close friendships over decades. He valued conversation, shared problem-solving, and the quiet work of showing up for others. Lee was a rock. 

Together with his wife, Jane Constance Merrill, and their dear friends, Lee helped found Stoneyfoot Farm, an intentional community organized around shared values of cooperation, listening, and respect. And some great parties. Lee found joy and renewal walking the Chessie Trail and kayaking the Maury — places that formed part of his daily life and he deeply loved.

Lee is remembered not only for what he designed and protected, but for the way he lived — with integrity, warmth, and a steady belief that thoughtful care could make the world a better place.

He is survived by his children, Amanda Merrill Burks and Ryan Knowles Merrill - and their children after them - who carry forward his love of nature, commitment to community, and enduring sense of place.

A celebration of life for Lee will take place Sunday, Dec. 21, from 2 to 6 p.m. at Heartstone Lodge, 1366 Stuartsburg Road.